In our fast-paced, constantly connected world, finding moments of true relaxation can be challenging. Our minds are bombarded with constant stimulation, from buzzing phones and pinging inboxes to never-ending news feeds. Even when we’re not physically active, our brains still process a barrage of input, leaving little room for genuine downtime.
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Learning how to relax requires intention and a willingness to experiment. After all, relaxation looks different for everyone. Here are ten easy ways to help you unwind and find your path to serenity:
1. Learn How to Relax Your Muscles
Progressive muscle relaxation is a technique that allows you to clear your mind while focusing on your body. Here’s how to do it:
- Get comfortable. For most people, this means lying down in a quiet space, but you can also do this exercise while seated or standing.
- Starting from your feet and working your way up, isolate each part of your body. Tense the muscles in that area, hold for a few seconds, and then release.
- Move on to the next body part, tensing, holding, and releasing until you’ve covered your entire body, including your face and scalp.
- Once you’ve finished, take three slow, deep breaths to savor the sensation of relaxed muscles and create a body memory of this state.
2. Relax with Breathing Exercises
Our breathing patterns can significantly impact our nervous systems and overall sense of calm. By slowing our breath, we can release cortisol, a stress hormone, and promote a more peaceful state of mind.
One breathing exercise to try is called “square breathing”:
- Inhale slowly until your lungs are full.
- Hold your breath for the same amount of time as your inhalation.
- Exhale slowly, taking the same amount of time as your inhalation.
- Hold your lungs empty for the same duration.
Visualize each of these actions as one side of a square, and repeat the cycle as needed.
3. Write It Out
Our minds can be busy places, filled with thoughts, memories, and to-do lists that constantly vie for our attention. Writing down what’s on our minds can help us relax by reassuring our brains that they don’t need to hold and track everything.
Here are some ideas for using writing as a relaxation tool:
- Write out your feelings as part of a bedtime routine to help clear your mind before sleep.
- Keep a small journal handy and jot down ideas as they come throughout the day.
- Use a written system, like the Bullet Journal method, to track your to-dos and get them out of your head.
- Write down your worries and fears, then tear up or burn the paper as part of a personal practice.
- Keep a gratitude journal and write down the things you’re thankful for to start or end your day (or anytime you’re feeling stressed).
4. Visualize Yourself Somewhere Relaxing
Our brains are incredibly powerful, and if we tell them how to feel, our bodies will often follow suit. We can promote relaxation by vividly picturing ourselves in a calm, peaceful setting.
What is your personal oasis? Imagine yourself there right now:
- Are you in a meadow on a warm spring afternoon?
- Walking through a quiet pine forest?
- Gently rocking on a boat or listening to the rolling waves at the beach?
The more sensory detail you can incorporate into your visualization, the better. What can you smell? What colors do you see? How does your body feel in this serene environment?
5. Take a Dance Unwind
Sometimes, the best way to relax is to move your body. Put on a song you love and force yourself to dance, even if you’re not in the mood. Dancing releases feel-good hormones throughout your body, helping you unwind.
Upbeat music can be invigorating, but if you’re feeling sad, slow-dancing to a melancholy tune can be cathartic. Likewise, stomping around to angry music can be a powerful release. Whenever we bring our bodies and minds into alignment, we reduce tension and promote relaxation.
6. Practice Mindful Eating
We all need to eat, so why not turn mealtimes into intentional pauses for relaxation? Mindful eating is the practice of eating with full attention and presence, engaging all of our senses in the experience.
Mindful eating helps reduce stress through both food choices and eating habits:
- Complex carbs (whole grains, oats) boost serotonin
- Dark chocolate in small portions releases endorphins
- Green tea contains calming L-theanine
- Omega-3s (salmon, walnuts) lower stress hormones
- Probiotic foods support gut-brain health
Key practices: Eat slowly without distractions, chew thoroughly, use all senses, and create a peaceful environment. For more details on stress-reducing foods and mindful eating techniques, read our full guide here.
7. Move Your Body to Relax
Gentle, mindful movement can slow your heart rate and induce a feeling of relaxation throughout your body. While practicing yoga or Tai Chi can be effective for calming the mind and body, you don’t necessarily need a formal practice or class. Simple stretching as part of your daily routine can yield relaxing benefits.
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8. Meditate
Meditation is one of the most effective ways to relax and enjoy a host of other benefits. Here’s how to get started with a simple meditation practice:
- Find a comfortable position for your body, either sitting or lying down.
- Close your eyes or keep them softly focused.
- Breathe naturally, without trying to control your breath.
- Pay attention to your breathing – simply notice the inhalations and exhalations.
- When your mind wanders (and it will), gently guide your attention back to your breath.
If you’re new to meditation, you might find it helpful to follow a guided meditation. Quality free meditation channels on YouTube include guided sessions, ambient music, and mindfulness instruction. Explore different styles to find what works best for your practice.
The path to relaxation is different for everyone, but by experimenting with these techniques, you’re sure to find methods that work for you. Remember, learning to relax takes intention and practice, but the rewards – reduced stress, increased calm, and a greater sense of overall well-being – make the effort worthwhile.
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